by T Dub Jackson
They say that love conquers all but can it really conquer the pain, anger, hurt, frustration, broken trust, and soul wrenching sadness of a cheating ex? It can if you are both willing to do whatever it takes to make your love conquer all. You see, the funny thing about love is that it does nothing on its own. It just gives two people the will they need to make things happen. Love can't force you to work things out any more than it can force one of you to leave. Love can sustain you both though as you try to work things out between the two of you and that makes a world of difference.
The short answer is that love cannot conquer a cheating ex. But, love can bring a cheating ex to his or her knees. It can make your ex become completely overwhelmed with guilt and want nothing more than to make things right between the two of you again. It can also make you want nothing more than to work things out. It isn't the fact that you love each other that matters most. It's how you use the love you have for each other.
It is not going to be easy though. Every move from that time on will be watched. Thoughts of him doing the same thing with another girl would also boggle your mind. When arguments come along, you won't help but bring out the past and make him remember the pain he has caused you.
Instead of leaving things up to fate it is time to sit down and decide what you want to happen. Do you want to work it out? Are you willing to risk your heart again? If you do there is nothing wrong with that. If you don't, you'll be doing both of you a favor to reign in your heart, to whatever extent is possible, and announce that the time has come to call it quits and walk away.
Open your heart and consider the good things he has done in the past. Analyze his act whether you're missing something in you and that the other person was able to provide it for him. If he truly loves you, he will patiently wait for your decision. Your relationship may not be the same way as before, but every step you take is worth a try. This is what you call unconditional love however staying in a relationship for something else would be a waste of time which will also end up hurting you more.
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