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Kevin just watched his best buddy go through the nasty and painful experience of being cheated on by his wife. He doesn't want anything like that to happen in his own relationship.

Worries that he's not doing enough to keep his own wife happy have been on Kevin's mind a lot since his friend confided in him about the infidelity that happened in his marriage. Kevin's friend is now walking around in a daze and doesn't know whether his marriage will ever rebound after his wife's affair.

Kevin is in shock over this happening to a couple so close to him. His friend's wife is a great person and he can't imagine why she would do this and how it could've happened in the first place.

Above all, Kevin wants to do whatever he can to prevent his own wife from having an affair.

Infidelity can happen in just about any relationship regardless of how long or short a time that the couple has been together. It occurs in marriages and in long-term unmarried relationships.

The men who get cheated on are both good looking and also more average looking. Those who are wealthy and those who struggle financially both get cheated on.

Even though infidelity happens to all kinds of men and in all kinds of relationships, there are some common denominators that are usually present.

It's not necessarily about class, race, education or appearance...it's about the usual level of connection (or disconnection) between the couple and the amount of attention the man regularly pays to his woman.

Here's a glimpse into the life of a man who gets cheated on:

He works a lot and is very focused in on his career, his sports teams or his hobbies. He rarely contacts his woman throughout his work day and they often have to coordinate their schedules in order to share a meal or time together.

He expects his woman to be there when he is available, but he doesn't take the time to listen to what she'd like from him.

He may be well-meaning and he may love his wife or girlfriend and his family very much, but he often takes his woman for granted. He is not all that aware of her needs. They live very separate lives emotionally and sometimes literally-- even if they share the same home.

There's absolutely nothing wrong with being ambitious and career-oriented or with having exciting interests and hobbies that are outside the realm of your marriage or love relationship.

The trick is not to put your woman low on the totem pole of priorities in your life. Don't take her for granted. Don't stop making the time and creating the energy and attention for her.